There is a big difference between love and lust. When you are in a relationship where you keep breaking up and then getting back together, this is not love but lust. When you feel emotionally attached to someone or when you feel physically attached to someone.
When someone really loves they will not have the desire to leave you and they will stay with you no matter how bad things are and how hard things are at the moment.
When you aren’t able to decide if you love someone or if you feel insecure about the person you are with, maybe it means that you need to take time to pay attention to what is going on and what you are really wanting.
Love is not easy, and it is certainly not simple, but the truth is that you either love someone or you don’t love them. There is not in between when it comes to love. If you really love someone, you will do whatever you can to make sure that you never lose them and that they know that you love them.
Love is hard but it should never be complicated. If you love someone that doesn’t love you back, then you don’t deserve that kind of love and you need to move on.
It is sometimes hard to understand this and when we let our hearts determine what we are feeling, it can be a hard place and a hard thing to accept. If you have someone that is telling you that they love you but then they are leaving you, chances are that he doesn’t love you at all. This is a game that he is playing.
If a guy leaves you and keeps coming back, this is not love. Sometimes a guy will leave you and come back because he feels safe with you or comfortable with you. Being comfortable does not mean that someone loves you. Do not put yourself in a situation where you are waiting for him to come back to you or waiting for him to leave you again.
One of the worse things that can happen is that you love someone unconditionally and they know that, and they will still leave you or worse yet, use your emotions to manipulate you.
Never think that you are the reason because this can cause you to feel bad about yourself and that is unfair.
Guilt
Do not ever feel guilty for your guy leaving you. You should never have to change who you are for him to love you or for him to be with you. Do not try to make someone stay that doesn’t want to be in your life.
You can never force someone to love you and trying to do this is unhealthy. If you are the person that keeps letting him come back, you are guilty of that and you are hurting yourself each time he leaves again.
When you allow this, each time he leaves you are allowing your heart to be broken over and over again. Do not ever think that you are turning your back on him, he doesn’t deserve you.
You must decide to do what is best for your own mental and well-being. When he leaves you and tries to come back, you should not open the door to him. Learn to love who you are and to show yourself respect. Learn to forgive yourself and to move on with someone that really loves you.
If you are tired of being with someone that is always playing games with you, show them that you are worthy of better treatment. Be thankful that he allowed you to experience what he did and that he made you stronger so that you can deal with hard things in your life.
Everything happens for a reason and if you have dated someone that has taught you to live a better life, remember that you will heal and that you can have a better future.
Allow yourself to have an amazing future and meet someone that will not leave you over and over again.