It’s hard to know if the person you are with or you have been with is the right individual for you. Falling in love makes us blind such that we are unable to view a person the way he or she should be viewed. We only decide to see their best behaviors and ignore the bad ones. We ignore the fact that we are bound to be disappointed regardless of the love we show each other.
You will experience a lot of pain during the weeks or months before finally breaking up. You’ll be uncertain, confused and depressed.
You don’t know whether to quite the relationship or continue fighting for it.
There are excusable reasons to let go although leaving someone is always considered a bad move. Below are some of the moments you might be excused when you move on.
YOU ARE NOT HAPPY WITH THE RELATIONSHIP
We are affected differently in relationships. When are close with someone, our consciousness is greatly affected and we find ourselves loving and caring more for that person. Our view of life and our emotions will largely be affected by the status of our relationship. If a relationship makes you unhappy every time, stressed and depressed then you should let go. You won’t be blamed by anyone.
YOU EXPERIENCE MORE BAD TIMES THAN GOOD TIMES
It’s normal for a relationship to have ups and downs. Nevertheless, when the downs outweigh the ups then something is definitely wrong.
The relationship you had with your companion made you feel good and that’s why you started seeing them in the first place.
The good memories you had are the reasons you loved your partner. if right the memories you’re creating makes you cry every time then the best decision is to just let go of the relationship.
YOU DON’T SEE YOU AND YOUR PARTNER IN THE FUTURE
Why should you be in a relationship that won’t benefit you in the end? You shouldn’t date just because people are dating.
Nowadays it’s easy to get attention and get laid. It’s not good to pretend that you care for someone when clearly you don’t. It’s not fair for both of you and will just increase your pain and sorrows.
YOU DON’T TRUST YOUR PARTNER ANYMORE
Relationships are formed on the basis of trust, without trust relationships can’t work. If you find it hard trusting the individuals in your life then something is not right. You are in the wrong group. If you are dating someone and you find it difficult trusting them again after they’ve betrayed you then you better move out of that relationship instead of wasting your time.
YOU ARE WORTHLESS TO YOUR PARTNER AND THEY DON’T TREAT YOU RIGHT
Respect and love are the most essential things your partner deserves. If your partner doesn’t show any signs of respecting and loving you then they’re taking you for granted. You shouldn’t be with such a person in the first place. There are good people out there who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated. Just look for them.
YOU HAVE AN UNFAITHFUL PARTNER
I am not one of those individuals who give cheaters second chances but I know there are some individuals who find it easy forgiving them even thrice.
I, however, believe that giving cheaters second chances just piles up problems. Very few individuals will forget the past. Therefore, you’re definitely excused when you leave an unfaithful partner.
YOU HAVE FALLEN IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE ELSE
Follow what your heart wants. You might be in love with someone but then you meet someone who blows your mind away. It’s something you cannot ignore. Go for it.
If you decide to date your new found love then it means you never loved the person you were dating before in the first place.
YOU FIND IT HARD LOVING YOUR PARTNER THE WAY YOUR PARTNER DESERVES
You can let go of your partner if you feel like they don’t deserve you. Although you love them unconditionally, you might feel that your partner deserves better and that you can’t fulfill their dream of their ideal partner. This is a difficult decision to make but it is the right thing to do. Give them a chance to meet someone they deserve.